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It only gets easier by the actual DOING of what's difficult

5/28/2018

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I finally hit 135 pound benchpress in December. Every few weeks after that we would try.  Sometimes I’d hit it, and sometimes I’d miss.  Eventually it was more hit then miss.  And just recently I started trying (and getting)  it every time I bench.   
 
What’s empirically and emotionally obvious in powerlifting is that you're only going to get something to be easy... by doing it over and over again while it’s still difficult.  Only by trying despite (many) failures do you improve. 
 
Looking back on my 20s, everything seemed so hard.   Now at 47, there are certainly difficulties in my life but by and large much of what troubled, or at least tired me out then causes me no trouble today.  Perhaps your 20s are years of constantly having to do difficult things.  You know, you just turned into an adult after all, a lot of this is new.  
 
So when I run into the inevitable rough patch, I just look forward and imagine how great the 50s are going to be when I have conquered these challenges too. 
 
Someone said today, about powerlifting, that your ability to improve was practically infinite.   I’ll get back to you on that when I’m 70.   But I do wish that I understood back in my 20s the way I do today how nearly infinite is our ability to grow and adapt and improve.  It makes ageing a wonderful adventure instead what I expected would be decline. 
 
Here’s to finding hard things to do, and doing them over and over until they are easy.  

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A Christmas letter to myself ;

12/21/2017

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Thank you. Thank you for everything you did for me this year.

Yeah, the whole acid/stomach thing was and continues to be a bit of a piss off. It’s keeping me from doing some of the things that I love. And I really hope that we can sort that out together next year.

That’s a minor inconvenience compared to everyplace I got to see because you took me there. To every awesome concert and show ... I am able to sit for hours in the uncomfortable tightness of the Massey Hall seats. Able to dance (or a reasonable facsimile) for hours on the concrete bar floor.

You treated me pretty good this year. I treated you pretty good too. I guess it only seems reasonable. But some people, even with the greatest of care, don’t have the strength and health I am lucky enough to have. So, Thank you.

Another year under the bar has increased my respect and admiration for everything you can do and all that you tolerate, enable ...and enjoy. 😉. And while you occasionally lie to me (yes, I probably DO have one more rep in me) ; I promise to get better at listening to you before you have to yell.

You and me; we’ve got a pretty good thing going....

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Playing at the edge of impossible

12/6/2017

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Yes, another Powerlifting/Work Life analogy.  
 I am very close to benching 135#. Lifters know that this is less arbitrary than it sounds, as it means that I will be using a full plate on the bar. It’s a milestone! And in a sport based on tiny incremental progress, these milestones are major. And it’s very likely within 3 months or less from being achieved.  
 Some things that have struck me during this last bit of effort towards my big lift:
1)     It’s on my mind. And it’s going to be the same incremental progress when I hit it. I go up in 2.5# increments every time. This will be the same. And yet… it’s different. Just like other progress, we often celebrate what seems like progress, but not recognize all the other exactly equal steps we took to get there before. 
2)     I’ll miss a few times before I get it. Because it’s really at the edge of what is possible for me, I won’t know if I can do it until I try. So I will, inevitably, fail.  I have already. And I will again.  In fact, even after I get it the first time, there are no guarantees that I can the second, because for that moment, I am playing at the edge of possible. And if I chose to wait until I knew for sure I could do it without fail… until I was strong enough to make it certain? Well, then for sure it would happen way later than it will by trying whenever it just might be possible.
3)     The best version of me will be needed. Again, because it’s on the edge of impossible, when I try, I have the best chance when I had a good night sleep, and have been eating clean and feeling focused.  
 It’s this last one that really sticks with me. It’s very clear to me that to deliver this lift, I need to be at my best, and that comes not just from my intent at that moment, but what I have been doing in the hours (even days) prior to it.   
And that makes me think about my other endeavours in life, especially at work. For sure most of my job is not playing on the edge of impossible. It’s certainly not a walk in the park, either. So when it’s not easy…. The very best me ensures the best outcomes.  And the best me does not just come from that moment, but the moments leading up to it, including what I eat, how I sleep and how I recover and play.
So the next time I am at the gym, or resting, reading, or eating optimally, I will remember that what’s good for me is good for the best me at work too…and taking that time and effort is an investment in work as much as it is in life.    And not doing it? Well that’s just not an option, now that I know, is it?
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Me too

10/16/2017

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The image is from Facebook;  a colleague posted this today.  It  means a lot because it comes from someone who I know has a great and kind heart, who finds inequality ugly and who is not afraid to speak his mind.    And saying “there was times when I should have...”, does not come from flaws.  We are all flawed.  We all sometimes let things go.  It simply means you are not going to let fear of acknowledging that reality stop you from calling it out. 

And that’s what’s needed.  From men.  From women.  From ME.   

I have sometimes been angry over an incident and at the same time cautioned myself against that anger because “it wasn’t SO bad” or “I am just being overly politically correct”  or “I use salty language sometimes ....so I guess it’s the same...”.     And stewed.  And felt that there was no upside to saying anything.   Only down.  And ended up been as frustrated about the feelings of guilt and worry as I was about the comments that started it.    

It’s easier to call it out when I see others up against it. I do that.  So why not as often when it’s me?  Because I don’t know intent to be bad (he’s alright ...does not mean harm)...I hold back.  Because I think of how fortunate we are North America compared other countries...; I hold back. 

And while intent is incredibly important to me... I think this is one of those cases where I let it get in the way.   Because every time something like this passes unchallenged, an opportunity is missed to move the needle forward.   To let someone know that every word is a seed and that those kind can’t have any beneficial harvest.  That just because it could be worse does not mean we should not all strive for better.  That just because I CAN take it does not mean I SHOULD. 

Most progress is incremental.   It’s not surprising that someone can look back and go “uh oh”.  It is a sign that the needle has moved!   If I think about some things that happened early in my career... thankfully I had a manager would not tolerate aggression or offensive talk from our vendors .... it’s hard to imagine those things happen as frequently today here in Canada at least.  That progress has happened because of all the times people DID call it out.  

So if you think everything is good… I guess it’s OK to ignore all of the noise about #metoo.   For one, I feel really glad people like Ken don’t think things are OK.    That means there’s hope for #metoo.
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Yes, I am afraid ....

10/8/2017

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First ever un-spotted 115lbs #benchpress. I’m pretty sure I have never NOT used a spot on anything over 100lbs.

It’s not that I can’t safely move the weight. But I let fear prevent me from trying without a safety net.

I would stand there at the bar, trying to reason with myself that there was no need to be afraid. And even though I knew it was true I could not convince myself. So I would ask for a spot.

Today I tried something different. I figured since I wasn’t going to be able to reason myself into NOT being afraid... I’d just do it no matter how I felt. And the results.... you can see for yourself. I wasted a lot of time trying to reason with the part of my brain just doesn’t reason.

I’m done with that.
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It's been a long time...

10/2/2017

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....and I shouldn't of left you (left you).... .But I actually HAVE had a dope beat to step to.  

Forgive the Aaliyah reference....but it popped right outta my head. 

Anyway,  I have not stopped writing or thinking.... it's just taken a different form in the last bit.   Some training I was on with work had us doing some prompted journaling, and I have a book that's got me thinking, and a girl that ALWAYS is good for a soul-and-brain-conversation.  That's kept my heart and creative spaces pretty occupied.   We also have a move on the horizon, so there has been some extra work, which has created extra naps.  So time has also been a bit tighter.

But this blog remains my main place to think about my practice, my body and what I have gained and learned on that journey.  And there is news there, so... HERE I AM!.

Well, to be honest, there is no news yet. It's just brewing.  It's been brewing for 17 months or so since I hit that 100# bench press for the first time.  I remember the feeling.  135# is on the horizon. It's been a slow climb.  After 100 there was some quick gains, but the last year has been truly one of those turtle vs hare things.   Progress has been real.  Just super incremental with lots of time between. 

And now I am pretty sure that I'll put that plate on in October and have a good solid TNG.  So STAY TUNED!

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They love him...

8/9/2017

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This is my fitness diary, so this post might be   a little bit of a diversion.   We went to Garths family reunion in Saskatoon on the weekend.  Many of these people were virtual strangers to me, but it was very apparent that they loved him.  And he mingled and chatted in a way that I have never seen.  It was beautiful, and also sad that it took 20 years for me to see it.  And it merited a little note here.  There is something special about the love of family. Cherish it.  And get as much of it as you can.
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New Powerlifting Targets

7/26/2017

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The chart mostly speaks for itself.   But I also told Jerimiah that I'd really like to be a bit brave on a last attempt in 2018.   Not that the last on any of these above were guaranteed, but they had been done before a few times.  

And we aren't currently setting a date target other than "next year".  We'll just work on progress and keep checking in and when it seems within reach, sign up for  a meet and to a 3 month (probably) prep cycle.  

I said the same last year, but by November was desperate to get signed to a meet to have it firm.  I'll try to exercise patience and remember that more meets are added regularly and I won't miss out.  Then I can try to be a bit more organic with the planning, which may be helpful given my travel schedule can be hard to have any long term insight into or control over.

​HERE WE GO!!!!  
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Lift Meet Results!

7/8/2017

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Here are my results (in kilograms).  I am super proud, super tired and super sore.  

#Squat-  opened with last year's best for a result of 70, 75, 77.5
⚪️⚪️🔴
#Bench- last year's meet best was 47.5. Today -  50, 55, 57.5
⚪️⚪️🔴
#Deadlift - last year's meet best was 90. Today 95, 100, 105
🔴⚪️⚪️

I will have more to say later, but for now, it's enough. It's plenty. 

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Hitting heavy...

6/26/2017

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It's almost here!  I knew after last years meet that I'd do it again.  And I narrowed it down to a few events in November, and have been prepping for the Apex Summer Showdown since January. And now it's less than 2 weeks out, and I am getting the prep emails and reminders.....  it's HERE! 
I will have a buddy going to her first meet (Daphne) , which makes it a little more exciting.  I'm hardly an old-hand, but having a bit of experience makes me feel like I have something to offer her as she goes on this adventure. It's such a great community, and I have received so much encouragement from it: it's nice to be able to support someone else who's taking it for a spin.
I have (mostly) gotten over the stress of not competing in the same weight class as last year.  Maybe a tiny bit sheepish, but nothing that will hold me back from giving it my all, and putting some good numbers forward. .... on which to build my next year worth of progress.

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